Posted on Leave a comment

Exam School Student Worried or Become Wants to Be a Warrior- Their Perspective in Man Ki Baat

examination-tips and tricks

We are integral part of an examination driven system. Our capability is judged by our performance in the examination. Examination system truly evaluates attitude and aptitude of an individual. Examination system assesses persistent and consistent quality of an individual. An examination system evaluates our consistent nature for performing a task over a period of time. We prepare in advance for appear in an examination.

What is an “examination” for students? What do they think? What should a student do for examination? A great discussion with students from 9 years old to 16 years old students—-Do you agree with the ideas shared by the students about “examination”? Really amazing!


परीक्षा

परीक्षा एक कसौटी है, हमें उसपर खड़ा उतरना चाहिए। 

हमे हमेशा सकरात्मक सोच रखनी चाहिए।

 हमें पढ़ाई से भागना नहीं चाहिए।  पढ़ाई चाहे २ घण्टे करो या ४ घण्टे करो, यदि आप पढ़ाई मन से नहीं करते तो पढ़ाई व्यर्थ है.

हमें परीक्षा का महत्व समझाना चाहिए। 

हमारे मन में परीक्षा का डर नहीं होना चाहिए।

हमें परीक्षा की तयारी बोझ समझ के नहीं करनी चाहिए बल्कि इसे उत्साहपूर्वक व् पूरी लगन के साथ करनी चाहिए।

परीक्षा में काम अंक प्राप्त होने पर दुखी नहीं होना चाहिए।  हमें अच्छे अंक प्राप्त करने के लिए खूब मेहनत करते रहना

चाहिए।

 हमें परीक्षा में कम अंक लाने  पर दुखी नहीं होनी चाहिए, बल्कि उससे प्रेरणा लेनी चाहिए। हमें किसी विषय से दूर नहीं भागना चाहिए। हमें अपने कमजोर विषय को मजबूत विषय बनाना चाहिए। 

 हमें ज्ञान प्राप्ति  के लिए पढ़ना चाहिए, न कि  अंक प्राप्ति के लिए क्योंकि अगर हमें सही ज्ञान की प्राप्ति होती है तो अंक अपने आप आएगा।

पूरी लगन व् अपनी क्षमता से परीक्षा की तैयारी  करनी चाहिए।  अंक अपने आप आएंगे।

हमें प्रश्न को ध्यान से पढ़कर व् सोच समझकर उत्तर देना चाहिए। 

परीक्षा देते समय हमें अपना आत्म विश्वास व् आत्म अनुशासन बनाये रखनी चाहिए।   

  यह जीवन बहुत मुश्किल से पाए है हमें अपने जीवन में हमेशा अच्छा सोचना चाहिए व् कुछ अच्छा  करने की चाहत  रखनी चाहिए।

Rajeev Ranjan

Posted on Leave a comment

Aim and Ambition-Wonderful and Amazing Ideas from School Students’ in Their “Mann Ki Baat”

Aim and Ambition in Students life

Aim of Life Wonderful and Amazing Ideas from School Students’ Mann Ki Baat

What do school students think about “Aim”?  Is it important to have aim in our life? What is right ways to achieve our aim?  We discussed with students from 5th class to 12th about “Importance, benefits and ways to achieve goal in our life” in an “open interactive session. 21st century students have wonderful and amazing ideas on “any of topic”; only educator needs to awake their senses. Here, it will be really worth enough to discuss 9 final crucial points shared by the students on above mentioned question i.e. what do they understand with the word “aim”. Wise teachers will try to maintain students’ positive vibes for their lifelong growth. 

लक्ष्य !

लक्ष्य  हमेशा बडा  चाहिए।

लक्ष्य ऐसा  होना चाहिए जो पहुँच में हो  पकड़ में नहीं हो

हमें खुद पर विस्वास होना चाहिए।

 हमें अपने लक्ष्य पर अटल होना चाहिए।   हमें परीक्षा से भयभीत  नहीं होना  चाहिए।

हमें अपने जीवन में एक लक्ष्य बनाना चाहिए।

हमें अपने लक्ष्य को बोझ नहीं समझना  चाहिए। 

हमें अपने बनाये लक्ष्य की प्राप्ति के लिए खूब मेहनत  करनी चाहिए।

हमें अपने लक्ष्य प्राप्ति के लिए एकाग्रता लानी चाहिए। 

लक्ष्य प्राप्ति के लिए खुद से लड़ना चाहिए न कि दूसरों से। 

The goal should always be big.

Goal should be in the reach that is not in the hand.

We must believe in ourselves.

 We must be firm on our goals. We should not be afraid of the exam.

We should make a goal in our life.

We should not consider our goal to be a burden.

We must work hard to achieve our goal.

We must bring concentration to achieve our goals.

To achieve the goal, we should fight with ourselves and with not others.

कसौटी कसती है, कसौटी कोसने के लिए नहीं होती है. जीवन में हर पल कसौटी का होना बहुत जरुरी है,कसौटी बुरी नहीं होती, हम उसके साथ किस प्रकार के साथ deal करते है उसपर depend करता है।  हमें जी- जान से मेहनत करते रहना चाहिए व् अपने आपको को अपने कसौटी पे तौलते रहना चाहिए. जिंदगी का मतलब ही होता है गति। जिन्दगी का मतलब ही होता है सपने।

Posted on Leave a comment

Self Confidence Road to Success for School Students

What do school students think about “Self-Confidence?”

We conducted an “open interactive session with school students. Students from 5th class to 12th participated in this session. We asked several questions like

How does self confidence affect success? Why is self confidence important to success? Why is self confidence important for students? What are the benefits of being confident? Why students should be self confident?

 They shared lots of amazing ideas. We would like to lists some of the ideas shared by students.

आत्म विस्वास  व्  कठिन मेहनत  से लक्ष्य की प्राप्ति होती है। 

हमें अपने विचारों से भ्रमित नहीं होना चाहिए और अपने विचारों में स्पष्टता  रखनी चाहिए।

हमें अपनी तुलना किसी से नहीं करनी चाहिए क्योंकि सबके अपने अलग-अलग विचार होता हैकोई भी एक जैसा नहीं होता है.

हम सब के अंदर कोई ना  कोई क्षमता/खासियत होती हैउसे सही समय पर परखना व् प्रदर्शित  करते रहना चाहिए। 

हमें दूसरों के साथ नहीं स्वयं के साथ प्रतिस्पर्धा करनी चाहिए।

हमें खुद पर भरोसा और विस्वास होना चाहिए।

हमें अपनी जिंदगी में अनुशासन रखना चाहिए।

हमें किसी सवाल का जवाव सोच समझ कर देना चाहिए।

हमें जिस विषय में रूचि हो वही चुनना चाहिए।

हमें अपनी क्षमता और लक्ष्य के अनुसार काम करना चाहिए. 

हमें अपने अध्यापक पर विस्वास  करना चाहिए।

हमें दूसरों के विचारों का कद्र  करनी  चाहिए। हमें दूसरों के विचारों का सम्मान करना चाहिए।

हमें दूसरों की नक़ल नहीं करनी चाहिए. 

  हमें कुछ नया सिखने के लिए हमेशा संघर्ष करते रहना रहना चाहिए।

हमें अपने अंदर की गलतियों को सुधारना चाहिए। हमें दूसरों को गलतियाँ  बताने से पहले खुद के अंदर देखना चाहिए। 

हमें अनुशासन में रहना चाहिए।

Self-realization and hard work helps to attain the goal.

We should not be confused with our thoughts and should have clarity in our thoughts.

We should not compare ourselves with anyone, because everyone has his own ideas, nobody is the same.

All of us have some capacity / specialty, we should continue testing and demonstrating them at the right time.

We must compete with ourselves, not with others.

We must trust ourselves and have faith in our capability.

We should have discipline in our life.

We should understand the question before giving answer.

We should choose the subject; we are interested in.

We should work according to our capacity and goal.

We should trust our teacher.

We should respect others’ views/opinion.

We should not imitate others.

 We must always keep on struggling to learn something new.

We must improve our inner mistakes. We should look inside ourselves before telling others the mistakes.

We must stay in discipline.

Time-Management

We must not waste our precious time.

We should use time rationally.

If a person says that he does not have time, and then he lies because the time is not short, he himself does not use time in a systematic manner.

Rajeev Ranjan

Posted on Leave a comment

Time Management Skill-School Students’ Perspective

Time Management Skill-What do students think-Benefits of Time Management

Every one of us repeatedly says, “Time is money, Be on time, Never become late, do not delay your work, complete your work on time”, but how many of us really respect the values of time” that is a question. Have we ever checked our children whether they understand the values of time or they are non- serious actors, know the importance of time in their life? Children are very active. They know the importance of time in their life. They have interesting experience of day to day life.

We asked our students to talk about “the importance of time” and “how to use time rationally to give the best result” in our life. We asked a number of questions to the students’ age group 6 to 14 for evaluating their “time management” skill. The interesting fact about this surveyed that they might (a) Not submitted home work on time (b) Not completed class work on time and (c) Have reached at bus stop a little late but of course, they know the values of time in their  life. 7th class student Deepika Yadav stated that time is a great resource, if we use it wisely; we can achieve our desired goal. Most surprisingly a 6th class girl child Shreya said in her own language, “The Time is very precious for us if the time has gone then we cannot bring the time back. (Shreya 2) Neha Singh stated same key point i.e. we cannot get the time back which we have lost no matter even if I lost a second in our life.

2-3 students amazingly illustrated “time- management skill” i.e.  If we will manage our time, it will make us rich and good person and if we will not manage our time than the time will make us poor person. (Nilabh). Talha realizes that you will not realize importance of time till you became 16 years old. Then we realize what a beautiful and interesting childhood I had. A person thinks that “he has a lot of time” at different phases of life i.e. childhood, as a high school student, as an adult and as a mature person but we regret all those moments of life which we could not use it properly.  Kshitij connected failure in examination (class test, annual examination) with time management skill and stated that If you do work on time no one will fail you” If you will save your time it is good for you for your life. Further he added that managing time efficiently determines the success of students. Kriti a classmate of Kshitij shared same points with a little changed expression. She said that students’ successes in study depend much on managing time efficiently. Most of students agreed on rational use of available time in day to day life. Ansh stated that God gave us a beautiful life to see the world and to know about the world. He insisted that time is the biggest gift from God for us. So we should save time. Mohit insisted on self-discipline on managing time efficiently. He said, “Self-discipline is the key to manage time rationally”.

Most of the students were in favour of making a time table for efficient use of available time. They shared common points i.e. (a) Make a time table (b) Follow that time table which you have made (c) Should study, play, entertain yourself but on given time which you have mentioned in your time table. 

Children are intelligent; only we need to enrich them with wise tips and techniques for using time wisely and rationally for better outcomes.

Rajeev Ranjan

Posted on Leave a comment

Effects and Benefits of Pariksha Pe Charcha 2.0 by Prime Minister Narendra Modi on Students – How to become an exam warrior

Pariksha Pe Charcha 2

Effect of Pariksha Pe Charcha 2.0 by Prime Minister Narendra Modi on Students – How to become an exam warrior

The Prime Minister, Shri Narendra Modi, today, interacted with students, teachers and parents, as part of Pariksha Pe Charcha 2.0 at Talkatora Stadium, New Delhi. Honourable Prime Minister Mr. Narendra Modi discussed core issues related to life of students, teachers and parents during the examination and all stakeholders’ pre and post examination effect. Is a person’s life more than one examination? What are essential issues that should be taken utmost care by students, teachers and parents?

The Prime Minister, Shri Narendra Modi interacting with school and college students, during the ‘Pariksha Par Charcha 2.0’, in New Delhi on January 29, 2019.

We organized an open discussion in the class with all students after Pariksha Pe Charcha 2.0. Students came up with rational ideas and answers. Positive effect of Pariksha Pe Charcha 2.0 can be felt in the eyes of students. Everyone felt a positive spark in the eyes of students.

We asked them to summarize today’s interaction of honorable Prime Minister Mr. Narendra Modi with students, teachers and parents community from all over the world. Today so many students brought it–

Each and every student tried to interpret his own way the Prime Minister’s interaction with students from different corner of the world. One thing was very clear that each student was mesmerized by the outcome of the discussion in “Pariksha Pe Charcha 2.0”. When I was going through students summary/keys points of their learning in “Pariksha Pe Charcha 2.0”, they might be written grammatically incorrect but they were fully satisfied with the discussion points of the Prime Minister. Every student imprinted some of final dialogue of “Pariksha Pe Charcha 2.0” i.e.
लक्ष्य ऐसा होना चाहिए जो पहुंच में हो लेकिन पकड़ में न हो
निशान चूक जाएं तो  माफ हो सकता हैं लेकिन निशान नीचा हो तो कोइ माफी नहीं.
निराशा में डूबा हुआ समाज या व्यक्ति किसी का भला नहीं कर सकता इसीलिए आशा और अपेक्षा अनिवार्य होती है। 
जो सफल लोग होते हैं, उन पर समय का दबाव नहीं होता है। ऐसा इसलिए क्योंकि उन्होंने अपने समय की कीमत समझी होती है।
“Pariksha Pe Charcha 2.0” has magical effect on each and every student. We hope that student will impart these life learning lesson for the prosperity of self, society and nation.

Rajeev Ranjan

Posted on 1 Comment

Learning Life Skills/ Lesson for Students Teachers and Parents by Prime Minister Narendra Modi/ How to become an Exam Warrior

The Prime Minister, Shri Narendra Modi interacting with school and college students, during the ‘Pariksha Par Charcha 2.0’, in New Delhi on January 29, 2019.

The Prime Minister, Shri Narendra Modi, today, interacted with students, teachers and parents, as part of Pariksha Pe Charcha 2.0 at Talkatora Stadium, New Delhi. Honourable Prime Minister Mr. Narendra Modi discussed core issues related to life of students, teachers and parents during the examination and all stakeholders’ pre and post examination effect. Is a person’s life more than one examination? What are essential issues that should be taken utmost care by students, teachers and parents?

A successful person sets up a standard for himself. It is essential in life.

प्रधानमंत्री मोदी ने कहा कि कसौटी कसती है, कसौटी कोसने के लिए नहीं होती है. जीवन में हर पल कसौटी का होना बहुत जरुरी है, कसौटी बुरी नहीं होती, हम उसके साथ किस प्रकार के साथ deal करते है उसपर depend करता है।  हमें जी- जान से मेहनत करते रहना चाहिए व् अपने आपको को अपने कसौटी पे तौलते रहना चाहिए. जिंदगी का मतलब ही होता है गति। जिन्दगी का मतलब ही होता है सपने। परीक्षा बुरी नहीं होती है परीक्षा एक अवसर होता है. इसे उत्सब के जैसा मनाना चाहिए. यह अपने सामर्थ्य को परखने का एक सुनहरा अवसर है. हमें ज्ञान प्राप्ति करते रहना चाहिए , अंक खुद व् खुद आयेंगे. आपके भीतर अपने ऊपर विस्वास होना चाहिए. आप यह सोचे कि मैं एक येसी स्थिति पैदा करूँगा —-अगर आपने एक बार जीतना तय कर लिया है तो जीत तय है. विजयी निश्चित है.

The Prime Minister, Shri Narendra Modi interacting with school and college students, during the ‘Pariksha Par Charcha 2.0’, in New Delhi on January 29, 2019.

अपेक्षा व् आशा

Expectations are essential….we can’t be living in an atmosphere of despair and unhappiness.
When people have aspirations from a person, it is good. Clarity of thought and conviction are essential.

जीवन में अपेक्षा और आशा एक नयी उर्जा प्रदान करता है. अपेक्षाओ को पूरी करने के लिए खूब मेहनत करते रहना चाहिए. प्रधानमंत्री मोदी ने कहा कि अपेक्षाओं के बोझ में हमें दबना नहीं चाहिए। अपेक्षाओं को पूरा करने के लिए अपने आपको सजा करना चाहिए। अपेक्षा आवशयक होती है। अपेक्षा की वजह से ही हमे कुछ ज्यादा करने की इच्छा होती है।  निराशा में डूबा हुआ समाज या व्यक्ति किसी का भला नहीं कर सकता इसीलिए आशा और अपेक्षा अनिवार्य होती है। आप अपनी तुलना अपने पुराने रिकॉर्ड से कीजिए, आप competition अपने रिकॉर्ड से कीजिए, आप अपने रिकॉर्ड ब्रेक कीजिए, आप अगर खुद के रिकॉर्ड ब्रेक करेंगे तो आपको कभी भी निराशा के गर्त में डूबने का मौका नहीं आयेगा 

लक्ष्य का निर्धारण- लक्ष्य सा होना चाहिए जो पहुंच में हो लेकिन पकड़ में न हो

लक्ष्य हमेशा बड़ा होना चाहिए.  पीएम मोदी ने कहा कि लक्ष्य हमारे सामर्थ्य के साथ जुड़ा होना चाहिए और अपने सपनों की ओर ले जाने वाला होना चाहिए। उन्होंने एक कहावत के द्वारा समझाया कि निशान चूक जाएं तो  माफ हो सकता हैं लेकिन निशान नीचा हो तो कोइ माफी नहीं, लक्ष्य एसा होना चाहिए जो पहुंच में हो लेकिन पकड़ में न हो। जब हमारा लक्ष्य पकड़ में आएगा तो उसी से हमें नए लक्ष्य की प्रेरणा मिलेगी।

The Prime Minister, Shri Narendra Modi with the students, during the ‘Pariksha Par Charcha 2.0’, in New Delhi on January 29, 2019.

टेक्नोलॉजी का सदुपयोग

Technology should lead to expansion of the mind and as a means to innovate.

हमें टेक्नोलॉजी का सदुपयोग करना चाहिए. टेक्नोलॉजी का उपयोग अपने सामर्थ्य बढ़ोतरी के लिए करनी चाहिए. खुले मेदान में खेलना ये जीवन का हिस्सा होना चाहिए और बच्चो को टेक्नोलोजी की सही दिशा में ले जाना चाहिए।

कैरियर का चुनाव

क्या आप अपने पसंद –नापसंद के बारे में जानते है? क्या आप अपने पसंद के काम के लिए कुछ करते है?

करियर चुनाब में सबसे बड़ी समस्या खुद का भ्रमित होना होता है. मुझमे  खुद अपनी क्षमता , अपनी दक्षता व्  अपनी काबिलियत  पहचानने का गुण हो. मै क्या करना चाहता हूँ और  मै क्या अच्छे से कर सकता हूँ वो मुझे पता हो.  हमारे मन में स्पष्टता होनी चाहिए. आपके शिक्षक इसमें बड़ी मददं  कर सकते है क्योंकि आपके शिक्षक आपको बहुत दिनों से जानते है. अपनी क्षमता के आधार पर ही  कैरियर का चुनाव करना चाहिए. इस काम में दूसरों से मदद लेने में हमसब को हिचक नहीं होनी चाहिए.  

समय का सदुपयोग

जो सफल लोग होते हैं, उन पर समय का दबाव नहीं होता है। ऐसा इसलिए क्योंकि उन्होंने अपने समय की कीमत समझी होती है। हर इन्सान के पास २४ घंटे ही होते है. जरुरत  है आत्मवलोकन की -सही दिशा में व् सही समय पर  कार्य
सम्पादित करने की. जिस दिन आप यह सोच लेंगे कि हम अपने समय को बर्बाद न होने दूंगा उस दिन से आप नित नयी उंचाईयों को पाएंगे.

RAJEEV RANJAN

https://www.livehindustan.com/national/story-pariksha-pe-charcha-live-updates-narendra-modi-tooks-pubg-name-read-10-points-2382589.html

https://navbharattimes.indiatimes.com/education/expert-advice/pariksha-pe-charcha-know-what-lessons-are-you-in-pm-modis-class/articleshow/67737788.cms

http://pib.nic.in/newsite/PrintRelease.aspx?relid=187854

https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/politics-and-nation/pm-modi-interacts-with-school-students-at-pariksha-pe-charcha/videoshow/67737520.cms

Posted on Leave a comment

7 Golden Rules to Keep Your Child Online Safe/Cyber Crime/ Safe Child Safe Nation


Cyber Crime- “Can Happen Anytime and Anywhere”

Protect Yourself and Your Child from Cyber Crime

Safe Child Safe Nation

21st century kids and parents happiness lie on likes, dislikes and comments they get on different social platforms. We welcome strangers in our life and unwelcome own family members. Intentionally and unintentionally people post false or misleading information, malicious content and personal information for various reasons.

Are you cautious of online strangers/friends?  “Be Doubtful”

We love to chat, discuss and share information with online strangers after exchanging a few likes and comments on our post. This sharing develops into a personal bond. We love to live in this wonderland. Is it necessary to be very informal with online strangers? Is it necessary to be very personal with online strangers? Is it necessary to believe everything we read online? How do we verify authenticity of person? We agree that we cannot keep ourselves away from netiworld.  Can be cautious in revealing personal identity or information with online friends/strangers? Is it necessary to meet them personally?

SaFe Child SaFe Nation

Intelligent parent educates child at home to become ‘netizen’ and basics of ‘digital citizen’. Wise parent helps child to become a smart citizen with Smartphone enabled with 4G speed data.  If we wish to become a wise parent, we need to reflect the self for find out the solution of this problem-

  1. Has s/he taken permission to use your mobile?
  2. Does s/he share the details of game usually he plays on your mobile?
  3. Do you notice the web portal he surfs usually?
  4. Do you notice the total time s/he spends on the mobile?  
  5. Have you shared the bad consequences of giving personal details to unknown websites?
  6. Have you shared with him ‘not to chat with unknown person at social sites?
  7. Have you asked him ‘not to make friends with unknown person at social sites?
  8. Have you shared with him ‘not to send personal and family pictures to unknown online friends at social sites?
  9. Have you shared with him ‘not to share ATM Password/ATM Pin number to unknown online friends at social sites/during downloading any apps/game?
  10. Have you shared with him ‘not to download so many apps before taking your permission’?
  11. Have you asked questions to your kids, if you find an account of your son/daughter on different social sites?
  12. Have you talked with your kids about cyber crime?
  13. Does your child know the meaning of cyber bullying cyber stalking, online sexual abuse, online sexual exploitation, online commercial fraud and child grooming?
  14. Have you ever discussed with your child that if someone tries to pressurize him online, asking for personal photographs, s/he should immediately report to you?

Smartphone is integral part of life. Our life solely depends on our Smartphone. We are most modern parents, enabled with 2GB internet data pack every day, having personal account on each and every ‘social networking sites i.e. Face book, Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube, Google Plus, and having different apps i.e. WhatsApp, Tiktok, BeautiPlus and many more based on personal interest. Whenever our child wants, we provide our own mobile to him. It is indeed wonderful. Educating our kids for using rational use of mobile phone can save the child, the family and society from cyber crime, cyber bullying, cyber stalking, online sexual abuse, online sexual exploitation, child grooming and online commercial fraud.  Raising awareness among boys and girls on how to safely navigate the online world is great task for 21st century educated world citizen.

Useful/Wonderful/Related Article

Cybersecurity: 7 Ways to Keep Kids Safe Online https://www2.ed.gov/free/features/cybersecurity.html

Keeping Children Safe Online https://www.us-cert.gov/ncas/tips/ST05-002 

Posted on 2 Comments

How to Protect Your Child from Cyber Crime/Cyber Bullying/Online Sexual Abuse/Exploitation/Commercial Fraud/Wonderful Tips for Mother/Father for Child’s Online Protection Measures

How to Protect Your Child from Cyber Crime/Cyber Bullying/Child Online Protection and Safety /Wonderful Tips for Parent/Guardian/Mother/Father

Smartphone is integral part of life. Our life solely depends on our Smartphone. We are most modern parents, enabled with 2GB internet data pack every day, having personal account on each and every ‘social networking sites i.e. Face book, Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube, Google Plus, and having different apps i.e. WhatsApp, Tiktok, BeautiPlus and many more based on personal interest. Whenever our child wants, we provide our own mobile to him. It is indeed wonderful. Wow! My lovely son/daughter is quietly using mobile. Children are very inquisitive. Generally, we observe that our children does not use mobile, in fact s/he explores the Smartphone i.e. all its downloaded applications or may be download new apps, and his favorite games. All of us may be/may not be thought much before handing over a Smartphone to our kids.    

Have you ever thought something negative before handing over your smart phone to your kids?  Have you ever bothered about some bad consequences before handing over your smart phone to your kids? Of course, the answer will be ambiguous. 1980s and 1990s born parents feel proud in sharing success story of their son’s/daughter’s skill of operating Smartphone efficiently with other relatives, friends, school teacher and principal. We may need to ask two essential questions to ourselves and our known people that is (1) Have you ever trained your kids for ‘how to use Smartphone’? (2) Has your daughter/son ever taught you ‘‘how to use Smartphone’?

So many parents read news paper on daily basis. They read news about ‘Cybercrime’ but never ever think to train their kids, ‘how to use Smartphone’ safely, how to do internet surfing safely and what are the things we should remember before clicking on unknown websites/downloading different apps’. Do we expect 4 years to 13 years old child to use ‘Smartphone’ judiciously? Have you ever inquired about the minimum age restrictions to open an account on different Social Sites? If a parent knows the minimum age restrictions to open an account on different Social Sites and suppose, s/he allows his kid (5-13 years old) to open an account on different Social platform then who will be held responsible for cybercrime.

  Diana Graber, Author, “Raising Humans in a Digital World” (HarperCollins Leadership/Jan. ‘19) stated in HuffPost that “the minimum age to open an account on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, Tumblr, Kik, and Snapchat is 13. For Vine, Tinder and Yik Yak it’s 17. YouTube requires account holders to be 18, but a 13-year-old can sign up with a parent’s permission. Despite these clearly stated and published age restrictions, large and growing numbers of children 12 and under are using social media networks, often with their parent’s knowledge and consent.

Social sites provides wonderful opportunities for everyone(individual, personal/professional/businessmen)  to be connected with known and unknown people, however social media platform is also one of the most vulnerable place for performing different types of cybercrime. Generally a user puts all the personal information i.e. Real Name, Age, Mobile number, birthday, friends and family related information on different social media platform. In fact social sites like Facebook allows user to do some restrictions for others i.e. who will see your photos, but 90% user are not aware enough to read all the term and conditions, s/he just agrees with the term and conditions. Rest everything is controlled by the ‘default setting’.

Let us suppose! What will happen if:-

An untrained driver drives his/her car in a busy market,

An untrained pilot flights an airplane

An untrained person operates AK 47

The moment a child (6-13 years old) signs in Social Sites by putting wrong age number, s/he starts getting friends suggestions (who may be 18 years/above 18 years), and advertisement suggestion (Adult content/adult pictures/videos) that is not his/her age appropriate content.  A 10, 11, 12-13 years old gentle, generous and genuine girl may fall into the trap of an adult guy, may start believing his values, may start chatting on personal messenger and  may  start sharing some personal pictures/videos. These adulterous activities can lead to cyber crime, cyber bullying, cyber stalking, online sexual abuse, online sexual exploitation, child grooming and online commercial fraud.  

Paridhi -18 Months old baby girl-selects video on YouTube and watches

Smart parent have been providing Smartphone to his/her kids without providing enough knowledge of ‘netiquettes’ and ‘digital citizenship’. Can we stop our kids for using Smartphone enabled with 4G speed Internet Data Pack? The answer is obvious, ‘absolutely a big ‘No’. My next question to 2020 smart parent, can we educate our kids for using Smartphone smartly? Wise person will surely be against of banning use of mobile phone that is quite difficult and may be an impossible task for 21st century 4G generation children but they will surely support our fundamental point to educate and aware gentle kids “How to use Smartphone/World Wide Web (www)/Apps/Games judiciously” right from the age of 3 (if I am not wrong). Child starts framing ideas at the age of 3 (may be childish).

We teach our kids “Good Habits”, “Good Manner”, “Good Etiquette” and many more things right from the beginning. Should we not teach our “Digital kids” about the knowledge of ‘netiquettes’ and ‘digital citizenship’?  Parent can play crucial role than school and teacher because it is the parent who hands over mobile to his/her kids for various reason. I always face ridiculous moment when a child’s parent ask a teacher or school principal for reminding her son/daughter regarding not using too much mobile phone at home. Have you ever wisely thought about below mentioned questions?

  1. Who does give mobile to a kid? Teacher/ Principal/Parents/Mother/Father
  2. Who is the person at home who does hand over his mobile to 8 months, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5———-year’s daughter/son? Teacher/ Principal/Parents/Mother/Father

Child never shows rigidness for using a mobile in the school. A child spends almost 3-6 hours in a school and if we include total travelling time to and fro from school to home, it may be 4-8 hours. The question arises before a wise person that————

What does happen at home anonymously that provokes a child to use mobile phone without putting school bag at proper place/ without changing school uniform/without washing hand and mouth?  Being a wise parent if we find the answer of above mentioned questions; well and fine but if we wish to become a wise parent, we need to reflect the self for find out the solution of this problem.  A wise parent provides proper training to his kid to become an intelligent Smartphone user.

  1. Has s/he taken permission to use your mobile?
  2. Does s/he share the details of game usually he plays on your mobile?
  3. Do you notice the web portal s/he surfs usually?
  4. Do you notice the total time s/he spends on the mobile?   
  5. Have you shared the bad consequences of giving personal details to unknown websites?
  6. Have you shared with him ‘not to chat with unknown person at social sites?
  7. Have you asked him ‘not to make friends with unknown person at social sites?
  8. Have you shared with him ‘not to send personal and family pictures to unknown online friends at social sites?
  9. Have you shared with him ‘not to share ATM Password/ATM Pin number to unknown online friends at social sites/during downloading any apps/game?
  10. Have you shared with him ‘not to download so many apps without your permission’?
  11. Have you asked questions to your kids, if you find an account of your son/daughter on different social sites?
  12. Have you ever talked with your kids about cyber crime?
  13. Does your child know the meaning of cyber bullying cyber stalking, online sexual abuse, online sexual exploitation, online commercial fraud and child grooming?
  14. Have you ever discussed with your child that if someone tries to pressurize him online, asking for personal photographs, s/he should immediately report to you?

Self Introspection for Parents/Mother/Father/Guardian

  1. Do you know your child in a better way? Have you noticed something unique or unusual in your child?
  2. Do you give time to your child other than taking him/her for a trip, for lunch/dinner, and watching a film altogether?
  3. Do you talk to your child on daily basis? What does he think? What things do attract him? Does s/he face any difficulties these days?
  4. Does your child feel comfortable and confident in sharing good/bad feeling/emotions/problems with you without any hesitation?

Valuable Guidelines for Child Online Protection and Safety by NCPCR Guidelines

NCPCR Guidelines -Website http://ncpcr.gov.in/index1.php?lang=1&level=0&linkid=79&lid=1025

Educating our kids for using rational use of mobile phone can save the child, the family and society from cyber crime, cyber bullying, cyber stalking, online sexual abuse, online sexual exploitation, child grooming and online commercial fraud.  Raising awareness among boys and girls on how to safely navigate the online world is great task for 21st century educated world citizen. It is an integrated effort of parent, school teacher, principal, school, technical experts and law enforcement agencies to protect our genius kids from cyber bullying, cyber stalking, online sexual abuse, online sexual exploitation, child grooming and online commercial fraud. Of course, education for digital literacy, citizenship and safety will definitely bring a massive change and surely will save our child to become a victim of cyber crime world and its various forms.   

Rajeev Ranjan

  Read Valuable/Informative Articles Through Below Mentioned Link

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/diana-graber/3-reasons-why-social-media-age-restrictions-matter_b_5935924.html

https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/mumbai/pune-based-interior-designer-arrested-for-creating-fake-fb-accounts-of-23-year-old-woman-5422565/

https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/tech/internet/do-you-know-how-to-report-a-cyber-crime-heres-a-guide-for-victims/articleshow/61464084.cms

https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/tech/internet/no-one-is-safe-how-internet-has-become-a-playground-for-cyber-criminals/articleshow/61418856.cms

https://www.indiatoday.in/india/story/safer-internet-day-should-india-have-law-to-regulate-children-s-social-media-exposure-1162516-2018-02-06

https://www.indiatoday.in/education-today/featurephilia/story/cyber-bullying-963599-2017-03-02

https://www.bbc.com/news/business-36854285

https://www.news18.com/news/buzz/new-report-shows-indian-kids-are-the-most-cyberbullied-in-the-world-1920013.html

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2014/aug/11/how-to-keep-kids-safe-online-children-advice

https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/net-safety.html

Never Ever Feel Ashamed if You have caught in an online Trap——————————Student/Teacher/School/Parent/Guardian/Mother/Father/Brother/Sister Can Report Cyber Crime Related Issue to —-

Posted on Leave a comment

Leadership -10 Best Quotes on Qualities and Characteristics of a Leader

Leadership -“You Too”

What are qualities of a good leader?   What are the characteristics of a good leader? What is leadership ?

We are unique individuals. We possess unique leadership quality to lead oneself, family and professional life, however conscience, clear vision, self confidence, strong determination  and  strong will power to take a wise decision at right time and at right place are core essential qualities of a leader. Rajeev Ranjan

Rajeev Ranjan

Posted on Leave a comment

Believe in Yourself—–“Act Now”——” You can”

“Act Now”

” You can”—–Believe in Yourself

“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities!

“If you can dream it, you can do it.”—Walt Disney

How to increase our confidence to face challenges? 

Rajeev Ranjan

School Teacher

Teaching is an art

Top 10 Education Quotes for Students Teachers Parents and Educationist

Life Changing Positive Thoughts of World Great Personality 

Life Changing Positive Thoughts -Positive Vibrations of Life

10 Life Changing Inspirational and Motivational Thoughts/ Do not wait- Start